How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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That's it for today.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why do I (45, male) feel like I'm crushing on a girl (19, female)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Ask yourself:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Procrastinates a lot.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.